So I have realized I am gender fluid and for people who do not know what that is it means some days I’m a girl other days I’m a boy and other days I’m none binary. I finally got the confidence to tell my parents I knew they would still love me because there lesbian so I told them but they were like oh sweety we were also called tomboys when we were younger and things like that. Or don’t lable yourself yet. I don’t get why they were like that I get I’m young but I can always change and I want sometimes when I’m a boy to go by those things and get a great haircut and be called him and he. Or they and them when I’m none binary but I don’t know how or when to ask them or anything like that. So thats why I need advice. This came out as more of a vent though....... xD
Well thanks for reading all of this!
-Aspenray
Well thanks for everyone's opinions! I think I will try to tell them soon...
Ack, I'm sorry I don't really have good advice :/
I wokdk sa talk it out,, or like figure out how you're going to say it.
I'm Bisexual, and still haven't told my parents only my online friends know that rn.
Well I have told my parents but they say it's 'just a phase' 😤
So um... I don't know a lot about these things. But the best advice I can give you would be to just talk to people about it. To tell people you trust, and care about. (Sorry, my advice sucks 😐)
Thank you all so much! And @Peaseblossom I told my friends and it really helped!
I say communicate your feelings to them. I don't really know how else to help, but I'm sending good luck and good prayer your way <3
Just be you. Do what you want. Be what you want.
(I can't though, because of my parents, who don't really let me say anything. They always be like: I'm hearing an attitude. Go to your room! I'm done!
So um yeah. But I don't like girls or anything like that, I just can't really be my weird goofy and silly self around them. Sorry, this comment sorta turned into being about me, oofie)
It’s ok that you have nothing to say but the reason is I am not a tomboy and that’s the thing my parents think I’m just wanting to be a tomboy well I think they think that XD
Umm... I don't really know how to... help? I mean, being a tomboy is fine I guess, I have (or had) a few friends like that. And I was kinda one to, but not really.
Sorry, I got no clue how to help. Wow um ok. Sorry, lol. But I hope things... turn out ok?
(I'm having one of those moments were Idk what to do/say. Brain fart?)
~Stormsun
(Im so sorry, I'm sometimes not very helpful AT ALL)
Thanks just for some reason it’s so......... I don’t know scary maybe?
I feel like being a tomboy and being genderfluid are very different things, and hard to mix up. I say just tell them, even though I get that the idea can be scary. they will most likely want to help make you as comfortable as possible with yourself (does that make sense? prob not...).